Here are two foundational steps to becoming more effective and a “force of nature” in your relationship and interactions.
Creating your life as if it really mattered is the essence of spell breaking because you take control of your mind instead of your mind controlling you.
Whenever we break a spell by shining the light of awareness and conscious attention on an old, outdated and sub-optimizing way of thinking, a spell, we create more effective ways of thinking, perceiving and of imagining our lives, families, work and way of being in this universe.
When you learn to shift perspective, you activate the powers of imagination, liberating innovation, imagination and overall effectiveness.
Are you asking the 4 transformative questions on a regular basis of yourself as well as those around you? Are you teaching others to ask them? Doing so begins a process of transformation if you have the courage to ask AND the courage to hear the answers and to work with them.
There is a powerful question to add to our prior two that opens up the mind and offers a new perspective that allows for greater change and even transformation.
By asking the power question, “What are the one or two things that are wrong that if addressed would make the biggest difference?” you can make great progress.
What is the one question that gets asked least often or is ignored by most people and organizations that if asked would help galvanize attention and build positive momentum?
If those around you are more engaged in the work they do, they “own” what they do, take pride in it and are constantly looking for ways to do it better, you will have increased effectiveness and efficiency resulting in improved results and a better bottom line.
There is the larger field of possibility of which polarities are only pieces of the whole. It is our fascination with and deep attachment to polarized positions of thinking and acting that blinds us to the integrative power of the 3rd perspective.